tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7421171414346402173.post3446553394133785381..comments2023-10-14T12:32:59.578-04:00Comments on My Confessions: The one where She wonders if She's Making the Right Choice..Jacquiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18073885843675226858noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7421171414346402173.post-89281961609966236302010-01-26T12:38:02.687-05:002010-01-26T12:38:02.687-05:00You're quite brave to pack up and move your wh...You're quite brave to pack up and move your whole life to a place where you don't know anyone for a guy. I'd make sure that it's really what you want to do before you commit to it.Lynnhttp://contentedwife.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7421171414346402173.post-1688097642262858192010-01-25T20:58:05.416-05:002010-01-25T20:58:05.416-05:00I dated a guy for five years, and we stuck it out ...I dated a guy for five years, and we stuck it out through him going to boot camp, getting stationed across the country, and me being in school. We had our ups and downs, and some things he did annoyed me. And then when it came time for him to be stationed back here, I knew it was time to make a decision about us. I came to the decision that I was sticking it out merely because we'd already been together so long, and that although that was the case, there were some things lacking that I needed a guy to have to make him worthy of my "happily ever after". <br /><br />I personally couldn't stay with a guy who only said "I love you" when he knew he was in the doghouse... Not that I need constant affirmation, but if he can't say it, especially when we're doing the long distance thing, something is off balance in the relationship. A pro/con list will probably help. I came to the decision that even though a lot of the things that bothered me in my relationship were small, seemingly insignificant things, they added up to a large enough list that I knew he wasn't worth it.<br /><br />I've actually been much happier since we broke up. We broke up about 2 years ago, and I haven't missed him at all. That's how I know I made the right decision. <br /><br />Only you can make your decision, but if you can come up with enough reasons to be uneasy about the relationship, I wouldn't continue with it. Never settle when something far more amazing could be out there!<br /><br />(Sorry for babbling!)VaBookworm87https://www.blogger.com/profile/18317012517567013823noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7421171414346402173.post-1871181257402771402010-01-25T05:36:28.443-05:002010-01-25T05:36:28.443-05:00-hug-
You know my stance.
I'm biased, which ...-hug-<br /><br />You know my stance.<br /><br />I'm biased, which I think most are. We don't want you to move, but at the same time I can see why you want to.<br /><br />Pros/Cons Lists help.<br /><br />But honestly, if you're having problems now, what and how is it going to be when you move up there with him?<br /><br />I just don't want you hurt or come back feeling like you are defeated.<br /><br />You know that we will support you no matter what. Just let us know which way to stand and we'll be there. :Deirikoalahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16909262221842390818noreply@blogger.com